"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. " - Albert Einstein

yes ma. just live for the moment. it does get hard to let go of the past.. but eventually we find out that life brings along something better. cherish the wonderful moments of the past.. and move on for there is not much we can do. maybe shed a few tears.. and hate the sinking feeling. but wallowing in self-pity is an insult to you.. and you don't deserve that..
so smile.
for life never does give us what we want.
and that may be for the better.

just know that i will always be there for you.
and that i love you very very much.