all i ever want to do is “the right thing.” the trouble is, the left and right side of my brain rarely agree on what the right thing is. my idea of wonderfully right can be someone else's idea of terribly wrong. this is a point that’s often forgotten by people who have strong opinions. most feel that everyone really ought to agree with their point of view – for, clearly, it is right. but there is something very wrong about a world in which its people are not allowed to have their differences. ultimate rights and ultimate wrongs are very difficult to define.