morality is a very personal thing.

i have my ethical standards and my lines that i do not want to cross. what i consider acceptable, you may see as unthinkable. and really, there's rarely a problem with this as long as you and i are honest about where the boundaries lie.

trouble ensues when either of us is being disingenuous or doubtful.

if i don't know where i stand, how can i do anything but stumble?