people love to have opinions. that's fair enough. it's a free world. people also love to foist their opinions on one another. this is not quite so fair and it tends to make the world less free. i sometimes feel as if i'm being watched and judged. given that i can't possibly please all the people all the time, maybe i should decide that i'm happy to be judged as a person who doesn't care whether or not i'm being judged!

do i make sense?